mrs V is working - I'm retired.
I do all the washing up, a lot of cooking, swabbing kitchen & bathroom floors, hang out washing, putting out bins and the like, also tend the bottomless coffee cup. All obvious things which need doing.
My basic problem is that I can't see dirt, so Mrs V dusts , hoovers (Sebo s) gathers dirty clothes and does all sorts of jobs I can't see the reason for.
Is that one reason men don't do their share - because they can't see what needs doing, and it doesn't bother them?