My own feeling with respect to Kval's "repressed" comment was that it was a mocking and sarcastic response to, and rebuttal of, the previous, equally blunt, post of "sad, sad, sad". I certainly agree that not personally enjoying, or wanting to ever try, BDSM-related sex is hardly a cause for mockery, any more than wanting to should be. But casting judgement on someone else's sex life is to invite criticism of one's own in kind.