TB I thought it was solved. It's not your problem, you are looking after the money it is not yours to decide to whom it should be given. You are the keeper for the owner, if she doesn't want it..the wife, give back to the soon to be ex prisoner. It really is as easy as that. Despite who YOU want it to go to, it is not your choice, all done, solved and correct methinks and so do most others here who have taken the trouble to answer your plea for advice. Night, night.