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Hi Tazmac25
Your brother in law sounds a bit of a scamp lol
We dont really need anything for our home and dont want people wasting their money on gifts so thought bringing a dish to a get together is a good idea. Plus I dread to think how much we all spend on wedding gifts ever year, there are 4 of us getting married in my family in 2009 nall within 3 months, so thought this seemed more sensible.
Someone has suggested hiring a marquee somewhere and a steel band, now struggling to find a location!