has anyone on here ever tried this? is it as good as it sounds or is it the old 'dirty fat old men' trying it on with 'dirtier fatter old women' and not the glamorous porn fest it sounds?
im getting more and more sexually curious as the years pass and feel like im not exploring enough and making the most of situations.
ive heard of a couple of swinging clubs in the north but I am so scared of setting foot in one I dont think I will get over the fear!!!
Why do you assume that all men are over-sexed pervs who would jump at the chance of a 3-some, swinging, kinky, voyeurism, extra-marital, emotion-free sex sqad? Is it really all men think about or care about? Is it really all they want a woman and a relationship for?
I don't actuallly believe that for a minute. Not once in their 40's, 50's, 60's etc. You, maybe ;-)
Salla....Martin has absolutely no interest in sex with other people and can't stand the thought of me with a woman for his titillation.....to him it's cheating.
salla not ALL men do.........I have never spoken to "all men"
My comments are from a long life of human experiences and yes, you can call it perversion.
In my book, if two people agree to a certain action, then it is not perversion, unacceptable to many perhaps, but not perversion.
Another definition is perversion is an act that the majority would not entertain, but how do you know how many would or how many wouldn´t? In the UK it is not to be seen as "normal" or "decent " to be open about their sexual activities, so it is unlikely that we will ever know what is normal and what is not.
I have no idea how either of us may feel in the future. However, we do discuss sex in considerable detail and he knows how open minded I am (I've actually been the one to open his mind!). I just don't think he would be interested - it's really not his thing. I now know exactly which buttons to press ;). As for me, it is not something I ever had a burning desire to do and can't see that changing. Even though I might have thought about it, for me it would have been something that didn't involve the feelings and emotions that go hand in hand with a relationship. It would simply have been carnal pleasure and lust; not a tender and erotic act of love.
I don't underestimate that. Nor should men underestimate women!!
If that is what he fancies in the future, then he knows he can discuss it with me and then we would make a decision together. Knowing what I know about him though, that is not where he would get his carnal kick!!!