Murraymints “ woofy..of course mourn..but take advantage of help to get you through it... and realise that people around you have lives to live too...“
I didn’t want other people, still don’t, didn’t want or expect them to be around or help me “get through it” just wanted them to bog off and leave me alone and with very few exceptions thats what I want now. Those few exceptions knew/know me well and would never have dreamed if telling me how to mourn or indeed how to behave in any aspect of my life......horses for courses I guess......